279 replies to this topic

[LowcountryBrewer]

Geez. I’m truly sorry.

[japh]

I can't even imagine it.  My heart goes out to you and your family.

[Big Nake]

Sending as many positive vibes as possible in your family's direction. 

[Hillbilly Deluxe]

Prayers for Scott and family…

[deejaydan]

Oof - So sorry for your loss. 

[DownEastBrewer]

Scott I'm beyond words and so sorry for your loss.  Thank you for the post describing the hell you and her persevered through.  Remember we are here for you

[Gumbo Leviathan]

OMG

Scott, brother, if you need anything please reach out. We are all here for you.

[Julius H Gardetto]

Oh my god. I’m so sorry to hear this.

Scott, if you need anything man, I’m here for you.

[zymot]

Julie is my most favorite person that I never met. I could tell by her posts that she must a very good soul.

 

My heart goes to your and your family. Nothing I might would be enough.

[BlackBeerd]

Sorry for your loss. 

[ScottS]

Things I did not expect to have to do today:

 

Go shopping for a burial plot.

[positiveContact]

Things I did not expect to have to do today:

 

Go shopping for a burial plot.

 

best I can say is just try to power through this initial period and get what needs to get done, done.  lean on any family you can.  sucks but that seems to be how it goes.

[dondewey]

Oh man. So, so sorry. Do you have any local help? Can't imagine. I really hope you and your kids can help each other through this.

[badogg]

I'm shocked and sickened by this. I can't fathom your grief right now. I'd be inconsolable. I'm so sorry. I'm fighting back tears typing this.

 

I couldn't come up with any words of my own.  So I'll just echo this.  How terrible.  I am so sorry Scott.  Condolences to you and your kids man...

[ScottS]

Oh man. So, so sorry. Do you have any local help? Can't imagine. I really hope you and your kids can help each other through this.

The church asked how many people will be at the funeral.  I said "it'll be small".  Then we started adding it up.  We might have 200 people there.  I never realized how many people loved Julie.

 

Our local support network is fine.  More than fine, really.  I can only handle so much support, and then I just want to be left alone for awhile.

[EWW]

Can we find a way to send you some booze or anything?

I really feel for your kids. I lost my mom young (I was 14), and it’s not an easy experience.

Please let us know if there is anything we can do

[AspenLeif]

I can't say that I understand...but, honestly, and I speak for everyone, no one should ever want to feel this way.  I am so sorry Scott.  I also say the same as EWW, a hug would be great to give and receive. 

 

ETA, shot you an email too. 

Edited by AspenLeif, 01 July 2022 - 05:32 PM.

[BeersBeers24/7]

Scott, all I can say is prayers and vibes

[Big Nake]

I could tell by her posts that she must a very good soul.

This is the takeaway for me.  She did not post here a ton but she DID post here and I was tuned into her posts.  She always seems generous with information and she also seemed to lean into problems with a purpose and some grit.  I always thought that because I knew of her various struggles and yet her determination always seemed to be there.  I also agree that our group is here in support as always.  

[DuncanDad]

Scott, If there is any small thing I can do for you or your family at this time, we are here for you.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Julie is an amazing person.