335 replies to this topic

[Bklmt2000]

Vibes, DD, to you and yours, especially your stepdaughter and the children.

[Dave McG]

Damn. That sucks. Vibes.

[anonymously used]

Tell step daughter to speak with local Jag ASAP. They can only help one side in a divorce, and it’s first come first serve.

He’s gonna get 134’d, which is up to a year in the Brig, and a Dishonorable Discharge

[thedisappearer]

In the Army, you typically just get booted with an Other Than Honorable. Still pretty screwed in the civilian world though.

Should he get booted, those kids just lost their healthcare.

[anonymously used]

Actually upon further reading that’s the max, generally you’ll get 6 months in the Brig, and a Bad Conduct Discharge(just as bad)

[Dave McG]

I have no clue how military health care benefits apply to family members, but I think I would prefer that he stays in so that child support & healthcare are a bit more certain. If he got a dishonorable, I would worry about his future ability to provide for his kids. Plus, if he's a lifer, the stepdaughter would be able to get some portion of his retirement.

Edit, Dis answered my question while I was typing.

Edited by Dave McG, 07 May 2019 - 06:21 PM.

[Zaphod_Beeblebrox]

You rarely serve time. You get put on shit duty until they boot you for Other than honorable.....which means you have the resume of a 16 year old looking for a job.

[DuncanDad]

We don't know much at this point other than stuff is settling out day-by-day.

 

I may have a trip to LA pretty soon. Our, (me and the W/G) thought is I fly out. They they home. When I get done. Grab the Kia Sorento and load it up and drive back to GA. They hang out with us until things get sorted out, over the summer.

Figure it out come August when more permeant things like kids' school kicks in.

You rarely serve time. You get put on shit duty until they boot you for Other than honorable.....which means you have the resume of a 16 year old looking for a job.

 

That's gonna suck for him if they go down this road.

He's up for Gunny this year...

[Buzz Buzzard]

Man that sucks all around.
Vibes.

[anonymously used]

He's up for Gunny this year...

Was is the Key word here... If he keeps his job I’m thinking E-4 xfer to the FMF then the I MEF... He’s gonna wish he was in Okinawa

[thedisappearer]

If he’s up for Gunny, he’s been in for more than 6 years. He’s entitled to... I forget the proper name, but it’s basically a court martial with no jury and average, non-legal officers and senior NCOs are the “judges”. Marines would provide him legal representation. Still a snowball in hell chance but it’s there.

DD, I’ve seen this thing many times sadly. If you have any questions or advice, feel free to PM me.

And I know this sounds sucky, but step daughter NEEDS to talk to every Jag office see can to block him from getting their help. Even if she plans on staying with him for now. Trust me 125% here. All she has to do is ask “what are my options for a divorce?” She’s doesn’t have to move forward with anything, but this will keep her from getting blindsided and not have cheap yet competent legal help should she have to make quick decisions. I’ve seen this too many times. Get her to Jag. Get her to every Jag. ASAP.

[Genesee Ted]

Wow... Stay strong for your family

Horrible situation

[dondewey]

Seems kind of wierd that the military would even get involved. Guess it's normal, just seems strange. What a moron. Can't they just deny it? Unless there is a video or something...

[pods8]

Is the military involved because it was an officers wife?

[anonymously used]

Because 2 of the 4 parties are service members... UCMJ covers all parties involved.... Staff Sgt. Jody is in the shitter...

[miccullen]

Because 2 of the 4 parties are service members... UCMJ covers all parties involved.... Staff Sgt. Jody is in the shitter...

adultery, conduct unbecoming,fraternization?

[TonyBrown]

DD,

Listen to ‘dis on this, get your girl to the AG asafp

[anonymously used]

adultery, conduct unbecoming,fraternization?

Uh yeah....

[miccullen]

Uh yeah....

hope that POA was worth your career dumbass...

[anonymously used]

I’ve heard many a story of NCO’s messing around with other NCO’s wives, but definitely don’t mess around with your superiors wife
Or your CSGTMAJ’s wife... that would be worse...

Edited by Blackula, 07 May 2019 - 09:45 PM.